Listening to Your Body — Why Changing Your Plan Is Not Failure

By Coach Nic Baxter | NBx Running Coach

I want to tell you about a decision I made last weekend. One that felt hard in the moment. And one that turned out to be exactly right.

I had signed up for the Lake Placid Half Marathon. I had planned for it, looked forward to it and fully intended to run every one of those 13.1 miles through the beautiful Adirondack mountains. But as race weekend approached I had to be honest with myself. The week leading up to Lake Placid had been heavy. After the 34 mile ultra-marathon, my body was tired. My legs were carrying more fatigue than I wanted to bring to a half marathon start line.

So I made a call. I dropped down to the 10K.

And you know what happened? I ran the 10K, felt strong from start to finish and crossed the line as 1st female in my age group, 5th female and 19th overall out of 229 participants.

Not bad for a decision that could have felt like giving up.

Feeling strong

The Pressure to Always Do More

There is a culture in running, and in fitness generally, that equates more is better. More miles. More races. More distance. Dropping down feels like quitting. Modifying feels like weakness. Listening to your body feels like making excuses.

I want to challenge that idea completely.

The decision to run the 10K instead of the half marathon was not a failure. It was not giving up. It was not letting myself down. It was one of the smartest racing decisions I have made in years.

Because here is the truth: showing up tired, under-recovered and depleted to a race you are not ready for does not make you tough. It makes you injured. It makes you ill. And it robs you of the performance your body is actually capable of when it is properly rested.

What Listening to Your Body Actually Means

Listening to your body is not the same as being lazy. It is not the same as skipping training whenever you don't feel like it or pulling out of races at the first sign of discomfort.

It is something much more specific and much more skilled than that.

It means developing the awareness to know the difference between discomfort that is worth pushing through and fatigue that is telling you something important. It means reading the signals your body is sending and responding with intelligence rather than ego. It means understanding that your long term health, fitness and performance matter more than any single session or any single race.

These are the signals worth paying attention to:

-Persistent fatigue that doesn't lift after rest. The kind that sits in your legs for days and makes everything feel harder than it should.

-Elevated resting heart rate. If your HR is noticeably higher than normal first thing in the morning, your body is still working hard to recover from something.

-Disrupted sleep. Poor sleep in the days before a race or a hard session is your nervous system telling you it is under strain.

-Loss of motivation. When running feels like a chore and you dread every session, that is often your body crying out for rest rather than a mindset problem.

-Niggles that won't settle. That tight calf, that aching knee, that grumbling hip — ignoring these is how minor issues become major injuries.

The Art of the Smart Decision

One of the most valuable things a coach can help you develop is the ability to make smart decisions in the moment. Not just to follow a plan blindly, but to understand why the plan exists and when it needs to adapt.

In my years of running 60 plus marathons and ultra marathons across road, trail and some of the most challenging conditions on earth, I have learned that the athletes who last the longest and perform the best are not the ones who push through everything. They are the ones who know when to push and when to step back.

Dropping down a race distance. Taking an extra rest day. Cutting a long run short. Choosing recovery over ego.

These are not failures. These are the decisions of an experienced, intelligent athlete.

What Happened When I Listened

I ran the Lake Placid 10K fresh. I ran it strong. I ran it feeling like myself rather than dragging a tired body through a distance it wasn't ready for. And I loved every step of it.

Would I have run a better half marathon by ignoring how my body felt and toeing that start line anyway? Almost certainly not. Would I have risked injury, a poor performance and a longer recovery? Almost certainly yes.

Listening to my body gave me a race I am genuinely proud of. It reminded me why I run. And it sent me home feeling strong rather than broken.

Permission to Adapt

If you take one thing from this post let it be this: adapting your plan is not the same as abandoning it. Changing distance is not failure. Listening to your body is not weakness.

It is wisdom. And wisdom, in running as in life, takes time and experience to develop.

Be patient with yourself. Learn your signals. Trust your body when it speaks to you. The races will always be there. Your body is the only one you have.

If you are navigating the balance between pushing hard and recovering smart — this is exactly the kind of thing I help my athletes with every week.

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Your best running is built on smart decisions. Let's make them together.

Coach Nic Baxter is an RRCA Level 2 Run Coach and ACE-Certified Personal Trainer based in Morristown, NJ. She helps women in their 30s, 40s and beyond run stronger, feel better and fall in love with every mile.